This topic might seem a little out of left field for me to be discussing. My baby is numbers, and I love to show you ways to increase your profits and decrease stress. But seeing as itâs Thanksgiving, I wanted to show you just how much gratitude can impact your finances.
Gratitude is something I practice daily. When my alarm goes off in the morning, I hit the snooze button and lay there thinking about all the things Iâm grateful for. I get to go downstairs and make lunch for my kids instead of rushing off to work before they even wake up. I slept in a warm bed. I have security.
It might sound a little frou-frou, but this simple mindset shift every morning helps set the tone for my day.
Feeling grateful can reduce impulse spending
Because I am a numbers girl, and numbers are so black and white, I wanted to find you some evidence to back up my claims.
I discovered a study in the Journal of Psychological Science that said feelings of gratitude can combat a tendency towards instant gratification. Eliminating our urge for instant gratification also decreases our need to swipe our credit cards.
When youâre feeling blue, what are you most likely going to do to feel better? Treat yourself! A new pair of shoes, a new purse, a hot fudge sundae⊠no matter the treat, you had to buy it. Practicing daily gratitude can override those feelings that lead you to shop the blues away. And it saves you money!
Shift your mindset to focus on the things youâre grateful for
This creates an inherent happiness in you.
When I wake up, I could grumble that I have to go downstairs and make eggs for everyone. Instead, I choose to be thankful that I didnât have to get a job that means I leave the house before my kids are even awake. I get to spend that time with them.
Gratitude is a practice. Itâs not something you just wake up suddenly knowing how to do perfectly. Itâs not a one-and-done deal. If youâre consistently taking time each day to focus on gratitude and the things youâre thankful for, you become happier. And with that happiness comes a reduced need for the instant gratification that comes with spending.
Practicing gratitude improves your mental state. Iâm sure youâve heard of shiny object syndrome – being attracted to spending and wanting the next big thing like a magpie. The contentment that comes from a daily gratitude practice means we stop being so distracted by the shiny object. We stop needing the next hit of gratification.
I feel strongly that everything in life comes back to money. When weâre not feeling content, or happy, we see it as a problem. As humans, we have a tendency to try to solve problems by throwing money at them. When youâre experiencing the happiness and contentment that comes from having an attitude of gratitude, the âproblemsâ become reduced – and youâre less likely to spend money trying to âfixâ them.
There is something to be happy about every single day if we choose to focus on it. What we focus on, we create more of; when weâre grateful and content, we bring in more of that feeling.
Feeling grateful promotes generosity
Particularly relevant at this time of year, we should all be searching for the generous part of our hearts.
Thereâs a famous saying: Misery loves company. Well, so does gratitude! So does happiness! The happier you feel, the more you want to spread that feeling to others around you.
The urge to Spread the Love leads naturally to feelings of generosity, and looking at ways to give back to those around you. There are ways you can give back without parting with any money, and Iâll share those with you in a few blog postsâ time, but for the most part when we think of giving we think of donating. And donations usually mean money.
When youâre in a place of wanting to give back, it forces you to look at your budget.
âWhat Can I Afford to Give?â
If you donât have a clear understanding of your budget, you wonât know how much you can give. That feeling of gratitude and generosity almost forces you to look at your spending and find ways to improve your money management skills!
You want to make more money to allocate and spread the love!
Being grateful makes you happy
These simple mindset shifts – deciding to focus on the things youâre thankful for – increases your feelings of contentment and happiness. Being thankful and appreciative of what you have causes you to create even more gratitude so the feelings keep growing.
Itâs all cyclical. It gets you to an ever-increasing state of contentment, and when youâre happy, youâre not chasing the latest trend to purchase – saving you a ton of cash!
It might seem like Iâm straying out of my lane talking about this, but as with the experience of pulling myself out of entrepreneurial poverty, I have also lived this. I practice gratitude daily, Iâve experienced how much itâs improved my life and my bank balance, and so I think itâs important to share with you today.
Make sure to watch this YouTube video where I talk even more in detail about the impacts that an Attitude of Gratitude can have on your bank account – and your life. Try to fit in a short practice of gratitude every morning or evening; itâs a great way to start or end your day.
But most of all, remember nobodyâs perfect: we get to choose what we focus on. You might be surprised by the change youâll see from focusing on the good.
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